Monday, June 25, 2012

Autism, Disney, and Accommodation

1. The Trip to Disney

I grew up near Disney World.  It felt like the kind of magic that Christmas holds - the same kind of wonder.  Now an adult with a child of my own, I'd thought about a Disney visit, but knew, because of Jack's sensory reactivity, it wouldn't be a good choice.

Then something surprising happened.  Jack began loving steam trains.  Disney has one.  And he loved spookiness.  Haunted Mansion, anyone?

So we went to Disney World last year for Jack's birthday.  It was a dream.  We knew we wanted to ride the steam train only, but if Jack was open for The Haunted Mansion, we were prepared.  We'd watched the WDW train on videos.  We rode a steam train in Tennessee.  The videos showed us that the WDW train went through two tunnels, important to know since tunnels are frightening: pitch black and loud, especially if kids scream.  And the Tennessee steam train showed us that whistles are loud if you're too close to the engine, but enjoyable further away.  So we were prepared.

Explaining the The Haunted Mansion was easy.  A favorite ride of mine, it was so familiar that I could reproduce each room and action that happens.  We trolled YouTube for videos of the announcer's script, the singing gravestones, and the ride itself.  We rode through our version of the ride many times.  "Again!," Jack would cry.  I was his personal doom buggy. 

We made several short trips to Disney hotels, like the Polynesian, for ice cream and shopping at the gift shops.  So when Jack asked to ride the steam train, I thought it would make a perfect birthday trip.

It did.  We rode the train and The Haunted Mansion, AND the race cars, AND the Peoplemover, when Jack spotted those and wanted to try them.  Then we headed home.  Jack loved it.

The one thing that made it even possible was the Guest Assistance Card.  This card allowed us to go through the disabilities entrance, usually a side or back entrance, so that we didn't have to wait in the long lines. 

Why don't we want to wait in long lines like everyone else?  Here's where I need to break out the medical jargon.  Jack's autism includes hypotonia, high sensory reactivity, motor skills problems, auditory and visual perception problems.  Hypotonia means Jack has very low physical endurance.  He can neither walk long distances, nor sit for a long time (sitting takes core muscle strength), no tolerate temperature extremes.  He has difficulty judging depth and distance, which means I often must carry him (off and on vehicles, toys, play structures, bathtubs, carousels, beds, etc), or guide him physically, or move his limbs.  Jack is highly reactive to certain visuals, like flags, dresses, crowds, and to certain sounds, like people talking at once and ... to crowds.  He doesn't climb, balance, or coordinate movements well.  He's photosensitive to bright light, sunlight, and flash photography.  Jack's autism means he can't communicate when he's near a breaking point, only after he's reached a breaking point.  And, often, that's too late to help him.


2. The Barrier

So this year, when Jack wanted to see the train, the steamship, and Snow White's ride, I didn't hesitate.  I thought GAC card!  No problem!  After arriving at the Magic Kingdom, we went straight to WDW City Hall.

Me: We'd like to get a disability access card.
Erick, guest relations: We don't have that.
Me: The Guest Access Card?
Erick: Why do you want one?
Me, puzzled: The card you show for disabilities that allows people to move forward in line.
Erick: You can't get to the front of the line.
Me, frustrated: My son has autism.  He can't stand in line.
Erick, reaching for a card: All it does is give you a comfortable place to wait.
Me: That's what we want.

So then my husband tried.
Hubs: Last year, we were here and we got a  ...
Erick, interrupting:  Our policies change all the time.  All you can get is a comfortable place to wait.

Erick handed over the card.  But his message was clear: we were trying to cheat the system.

After we went to the rides, we realized, Disney had indeed changed their policy.  At three rides, we presented our GAC to the ride attendant at the line and, at all three rides, we were instructed to wait in the regular line.  None of the attendants took the card or even looked at it.  They merely looked at our party, saw no apparent disability, and waved us back to the regular line.

Waiting in lines took a mere ten minutes at the train, ten minutes at the Haunted Mansion, and ten minutes at Pirates (a detour since Snow White had closed).  It doesn't sound long to me, having seen two-hour wait times there, and I'm sure it doesn't sound long to WDW employees.  But remember all those challenges I mentioned?  Hypotonia, high sensory reactivity, motor skills problems, auditory and visual perception problems?  It doesn't matter how short the line is, these things are still a problem.   

At the fourth line, after five minutes, I realized, too late, that Jack was past his breaking point.  We ducked under the rope line and headed out. 

At all the rides that day, people with mobility disabilities like wheelchairs and scooters were shown to the disability entrance. But we weren't.  What was going on?

I read the GAC card:
Walt Disney World Resort is committed to providing access to as many Guests as possible. Specific accommodations are made for mobility disabilities, hearing disabilities, visual disabilities and service animals.

Not developmental disability.  Not neurological disability.  Not autism. So it was the particular kind of disability that my son has that was different.  You can't see it.  It's not a wheelchair, a white cane, a hearing aid, or a service animal.  It's not physical.  It's a disability of the brain. 


3. Non-Apparent Disability and Accommodation

Which had me wondering: What is disability?  What is accommodation?

When most people think of disabilities and access, they think of ramps, handrails, elevators, or automatic doors.  According to Disney's policy, disabilities that receive accommodations are physical ones: mobility, hearing, or visual disabilities.  So Disney's accommodations include removal of physical barriers, like stairs or narrow doorways, providing alternate entrances, posting signs and information that point the way from inaccessible areas to accessible areas, or providing devices that allow individuals to read announcements, rides, or shows, rather than hear them.

Disney provides no information about developmental disabilities nor about autism accommodations.     

It's possible that this absence is an oversight.  When the average person thinks "developmental disability," they tend to think "intellectual disability."  They don't think of physical access or barriers for intellectual disabilities.  Persons with intellectual disability are capable of standing in line.  As long as Disney isn't barring entrance for them, maybe WDW thinks they have access to the parks.  They are non-disabled in Disney's policy because they are physically able-bodied.    

It's possible that Disney doesn't understand autism.  Though 1 in 88 children are diagnosed, many people aren't aware what autism actually means, like the hypotonia, high sensory reactivity, motor skills problems, auditory and visual perception problems for my son.  It's possible that Disney employees believe, like so many people, that autism is merely a behavior problem.  Maybe they think it's just that our child tantrums easily and we don't want to stand in line with a tantruming child.

So maybe it's an education issue.  And maybe autistics will have to show a doctor's letter at Disney and educate WDW, one cast member at a time.

Or maybe it's more serious.  What if Disney's attitude represents a general bias against neurological differences.  If you can't see it, how do you know it's real?  If it's in their brain, why can't you just teach them to stop?  How do you know that they or their parents aren't just making it up?  That they aren't just trying to cheat the system?

Legally, Disney is prohibited from asking a disabled person to "unnecessarily identify the existence of a disability."   That's the ADA law.  But that's exactly what we would have to do to convince Disney employees that my son needed accommodation.  And not just one time at City Hall to get the GA card, but each time we wanted to use the disability entrance at a ride, since we were turned away by each ride attendant. 

Guests and Disney employees alike reason that proving disability is necessary because of abuse of the system by people pretending to have a disability.  Examples are renting a wheelchair, and heading over to get a GAC ( here, herehere) and a site that encourages people to fake it and ask for a GAC to avoid long lines.

But abuse of the system could happen for apparent disabilities, like physical ones, too.  See the wheelchair example.  If physical disabilities don't need to be proven, should hidden disabilities like autism have to be proven?  Isn't that discrimination based on a specific disability?

If we think, well, of course it must be proven precisely because you can't see it, that's not good enough.  A  disabled person must request accommodation for his disability, not prove it.  ADA doesn't say that a person with a non-obvious disability must prove it.  Disney guests may bring in scooters, borrow a wheelchair, or get a TTD device without proof.  The only difference is that the disability is neurological - and we are skeptical and distrustful of brain differences as a society.

Abuse of the system is not a good enough reason either.  Non-disabled person's abuse of the system should not shift the burden to disabled persons to prove disability.  That's a problem with the system, not the disabled person.  But that's exactly the kind of burden-shifting going on and one that reveals the prejudice against non-apparent disabilities. 

Because Disney cannot legally ask for a guest to identify or prove his disability, Disney has given its employees the power to decide that a person is not disabled by how he looks, sounds, or communicates a request for accommodation.  It's bias against neurological differences to think an employee can tell by looking or talking to the person.  It's unequal treatment to have an unwriitten policy of screening individuals for disabilities.  It's unequal treatment to require further proof of disability without notifying the public.

I also worry that this kind of public bias against non-apparent disabilities will bleed over to the disability community.  The apparent/non-apparent binary reminds me of the race discrimination internalized by African-Americans for a hierarchy of skin color, with lighter judged as better and darker as less desirable.  Does the public and the disabled community prioritize physical disabilities over neurological differences?  Will the autistic feel less believed and less valued even in the disability community?  Is the neurologically disabled person segregated and isolated because "you can't see it."?


4. Accommodation without Discrimination

Maybe this Disney trip highlights my own mistakes in overestimating my son's endurance.  Maybe I should have gotten a wheelchair.  Maybe it reveals my own subconscious prioritizing of disabilities and a limited pie belief.  As in I don't want to take a wheelchair from someone who really "needs" it.  I'll take responsibility for those.

But when I do have my son use a wheelchair or large stroller and he gets up and happily run-dances, we will be judged again on his non-apparent disability.  Disney and the public will cast its wary eye, sure in their judgment of our bad motives.

Will he be constantly proving his needs?  Will he feel devalued and dehumanized each time he must?

There is a clear direction for further ADA rulings, for disability advocates, and for those companies like Disney that profess to be disability friendly.  Autism is real.  It is a disability.  It doesn't require your approval or even your judgment. We demand the autistic version of ramps, handrails, and automatic doors.  Already in place without having to ask or prove ourselves.  An entire force of autistics, their families, and their allies are ready to shatter your barriers and your biases.

And one day, there will be an Autistic Pride Day at Disney. 

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Edited: Read part two here - Autism, Disney, and the Bigger Problem.


67 comments:

  1. I really hope you write a letter to the head of Guest Services at the park and tell them everything you said here. Autism is covered by the ADA, so they don't have the right to question. I wonder if having a letter from his doctor might have helped?

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  2. This is a really sad development. I've heard so many times about how happy families with ASD kids are that they can have a good Disney trip. The fact that they used to allow ASD kids to skip lines and now don't tells me this isn't ignorance but just a conscious decision not to make accommodations.

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  3. I am shocked by this. We were hoping to make that once-in-a-lifetime trip over to Disneyworld (we're in the UK) with my daughters next year. Our youngest one has been diagnosed with ASD. She struggles with all the sensory issues, and crowds and waiting/queueing in a confined space are likely to tip her over the edge. We planned to visit at the quietest time possible, but really without the Assist pass it's not likely we could come at all. So I do call that discrimination, and a poor policy change from Disney if it's true. I will be following this up before we book any flights! Thanks for the warning; sorry you had to suffer being treated like a cheat by ignorant people :(

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  4. I've not had that problem at all in regards to me or any of my 3 autistic children. Disney has been a godsend for them because there they've been able to act independently. In fact, one of my daughters wanted to try it without a GAC once, found she wasn't quite ready, went to Guest Relations, explained her need and they were more than happy to give her a GAC that allowed her to use alternate entrances. Disney is overwhelming to anyone's senses. I feel it a shame that you have to bash the entire company because of one person's bad judgement. Did you even ask to speak with a guest relations manager? How were you communicating when/if you did. From this, it seems as if you felt entitled to whatever accommodations you wanted. I'm not saying cast members don't make mistakes, but Disney is glad to teach them what they need to know when mistakes are made.

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  5. I hope you share this with the head offices at Disney World. I am flabbergasted by the way you and your son were treated. My family was there in December 2011, and if not for the GAC, it would have been a vacation from hell. My 2nd born, also autistic, with SPD, can NOT wait in lines, he physically cannot. We would have been toast in the 10 minute waits, as well. I really hope Disney considers changing their policy...because they will lose our business otherwise. We love all Disney has to offer...we just need a few accommodations to be able to enjoy it like families with neurotypical children do. My son may not have a wheelchair, but he has a disability...how it affects him shouldn't matter.

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    1. I have to answer to this, as a special needs parent, not related to a Disney experience. My daughter has SPD. She has been in physical therapy for a year for underdeveloped legs. Last month, we graduated to braces...a step up, and forward to no therapy on her legs at all. Almost IMMEDIATELY I noticed (as did my other family members) that people treated her differently. They gave her special consideration, an extra prize at Chuckie Cheese, an "oh, isn't she so cute". My child was cute, and wonderful, and perfect BEFORE those braces went on. But because she now has a physical, visual difference, she is treated different. Hands down, whether we wish to admit it or not, SEEING a disability makes others that much more to understand and accommodate. This person's Disney experience is not uncommon, and should not be judged.

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  6. ... and there's NEVER been a policy to skip lines altogether, just expedite the wait. That would be rude to other guests. Being disabled isn't an entitlement.

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    1. She wasn't saying that she wanted to skip the line, just be able to use the disabled access point, which it sounds like they weren't able to do. However, individuals with wheelchairs were permitted to use the disabled access, because their disability was visible. I think it's an issue of equality for all disabilities...visible or not.

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    2. wow. NOT what she said at all. But the fact is that sometimes our little guys simply cannot wait in the big line. This last week, we were issued a hand-written fast pass for one of those lines, which i thought was an acceptable accommodation--Which is what disability DOES allow. Most of us do not abuse the GAP, and it would be a shame if Disney didn't allow us to use it anymore--because i know they would lose our season pass $$ in a heartbeat. The only reason i buy the pass is because they do ACCOMMODATE our needs. Accommodation is not the same as entitlement.

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    3. Her story is exactly the same as ours. My daughter was 8 years old when we took her to Disneyland for the first time. I had a note from our doctor as proof of her disability, and you know what happened when I showed it to Guest Services? They demanded that I SHOW THEM the child (as if they could "see" by looking at her a neurological disability), and then they turned me down. And yes, I did ask for a Manager, and they told me that they don't offer those passes anymore. At all. And yet, I saw people all over the park with these passes that don't exist.

      My daughter has matured quite a bit since then, she's almost 15, and she can tolerate the lines and sense overload much better, but that initial trip to Disneyland was just short of a nightmare.

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    4. People reading request for accommodation as an entitlement has much to do with why I just don't leave the house, avoid phones, and generally just don't bother anyone with my "entitled" attitude. (hard of hearing/autistic)

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    5. traciamc, What was the name of the manager? I have a contact there who would like to know. He also is a manager and spent hours, after a cast member had triggered a major meltdown, so he could learn about autism and how better to meet the needs of autistic guests. If that manager you spoke with is still there, he'd want to know.
      For everyone else, I saw nothing in the conversation she and her husband admit they had which explained why the pass was needed. And she did say "so that we didn't have to wait in the long lines". Maybe attitude in dealing with cast members plays a part, as does being upset in front of the child and not expecting them to pick up on that or have it influence their day. There are people who do expect such accommodations as an entitlement. The ones who do hurt the ones who use it prudently.
      Disney does still have the GAC in all 6 of their US parks and they appreciate opportunities to better their knowledge. You don't have to be afraid that program no longer exists because it does! To suggest it doesn't exist, both on the part of cast members and guests, is irresponsible and inaccurate.
      You'd be suprized how many people do try and take advantage of the GAC program. I'm not offended at all if questioned. I quietly explain autistic limitation and sensory overload (not simply say he/she can't wait in long lines)and have always been given exactly what we need. If you explain the sensory overload, they are more likely to understand. If the park is too crowded, it's my obligation to not risk overwhelming my child or myself ... not theirs.
      If it's speculation or not true and criticzes them for something that isn't policy it's a bash.

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    6. At a place as large as Disney World, with as many employees and visitors as it gets annually, it's entirely possible - likely, even - that a person or family attending a different day than you may have a totally different experience.

      And just because they had a different experience does not mean they said or did anything to 'deserve' whatever treatment they had.

      Good on you that your experience was so great. This blog even explicitly ACKNOWLEDGES they had a good experience the first time, and USED that good experience as contrast. "Bashing" wouldn't include the contrast, simply complain and complain without explaining WHY they are currently dissatisfied with the treatment they've received.

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  7. Without addressing specific comments others have made to your post (too much) I will say I didn't read this as a "bash". I thought you were pretty even-handed in your presentation, giving the benefit of the doubt before expressing your concerns. Ultimately there has been a policy change, and that's a shame. Yours is NOT the first Disney-related blog post I've read relative to this shift in sensitivity.

    So. . . on to your post: "doom buggy". That made me smile.

    Okay. . . this isn't even my blog post and I'm having a difficult time getting over the one comment. I feel like everything I'm thinking of commenting is going to be directed at countering it, and I think your blog's been enough of a battleground.

    I'm rooting for a happy ending to your Disney concerns. Do you live near it? Maybe this was a one time thing?? Hopefully?

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  8. Holy Crap! This makes me so angry and sad!! We joined the Disney Vacation Club a year ago because the guest assistance pass made it possible for my son to enjoy his time at Disney World as much as his brother. If Autism is no longer accepted(my son is high-functioning,very verbal and bears no physically visible symptoms) we may have wasted a ton of money that we didn't have to waste.

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  9. This policy is not yet in effect at DIsneyland, much to my relief. I hope they rethink their policy--because there is NO WAY we could do Disney without the Guest Assistance pass.

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    1. It never will be because Disney has no intention of getting rid of the Guest Assistance Card.

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  10. My son and I are both autistic (Asperger's Syndrome) and we are constantly challenged when we try to explain our needs. It makes life even more difficult than it already is. This post brought back a lot of memories of our trip to Disney and the challenges we had to face. We won't visit Disney again until one of us (Disney or my sons and I) changes and guess what Disney? My son and I cannot change! Over to you....

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  11. Disney was amazingly not too much of a challenge to me either of the times I went (at four, and eleven). That said, I can see how a pass like this could really help many friends of mine.

    Since you seem to be such a phenomenal advocate for your son, and you are not the only person who has had these problems, I hope that perhaps you can compile your story along with the stories of others to send, both in writing and online, Disney a clear message that the standard you enjoyed before is no longer being met - in other words, as your post suggests, Disney can and has been exemplary in the past and simply needs to remember what they've forgotten.

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    1. I don't understand the complaint above about entitlement. Your first experience sounds like you received reasonable accommodation. You're not asking for anything new.

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  12. Gage & Quinnlin wouldn't qualify under the new rules either (we've been twice and used the card both times) because theirs is physical/unseen. They can't be in the heat waiting for hours and hours because of their transplants.

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    1. I was there 6/22/12, and if this is "the new policy" they didn't use it on my family. IT STINKS that this family's magical day was impacted by insensitive people.
      I write talking points for parents with whom I consult to do visible and invisible disabilities, and yes, the person with the disability always has to be present when requesting the pass. I find this to be awkward, but you also can't use it if the person isn't with your group.
      My father, a cancer patient, lives in FL part time. They gave him a pass good for a year. Due to this pass, we can all go on vacation in the same place, and I love it.

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  13. I am so shocked by this - and so disappointed with Disney for treating you this way, especially after reading about the autistic boy who was given extremely special accommodations to ride Snow White's Scary Adventure for the last time, the last ride. I hope they get their stuff together before I bring my daughter back..

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  14. Hi! Sunday Stilwell linked your post on FB and I follow her. If you are interested, I might (stress, might) be able to get you a contact to send your post to or a letter suggesting that Disney be a tad better at their system for identifying disabilities. I looked for your email but did not see it (and I am at work so could not look too long). If you do want me to contact my contact, let me know at scargosun at scargosun dot com.

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  15. I dread the day a cop will ask me to show him "the guy with the handicap" when I use the disability parking permit. Show him a sweet looking 5 year old boy...

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  16. Something similar happened to me when we went to Disneyland. We even came with an official note from our Developmental Pediatrican but the particular "customer service" professional I was dealing with did not care.

    I was upset enough to write a letter to their claims office. I was contacted within a week with apologies and free tickets for a one-day visit for my family (which is no small thing). They are not supposed to ask because - besides being illegal - just because some people will try and game the system does not mean you treat all of your customers as potential criminals.

    Truthfully it probably is the action of one uneducated a-hole. Write a letter to the claims office at Disney. They try very hard to rectify situations like this.

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  17. I asked a friend about it, who is a travel agent for Disney. This was her response:

    "From what I have heard, nothing has really changed. Supposedely they are asking more questions in order to be determine what the true needs are. THis is to help elliminate the "fake" disabilities that seem to surface when less than honest people are at the Disney Parks. THey put a stamp on the card to indicate what special considerations are needed by a person. So for example, the stamp might be a picture with an arrow that indicates an alternate entrance is needed for someone with certain sensory issues. So not really a change, but trying to make sure only those that actually need the alternatives are using them."

    I think if you bring a dr's note as proof, it will be fine. We actually brought one when we went a few years ago, though at the time the cast member said he didn't need to see it. I get them wanting to cut down on those who abuse it, although probably they should just say, hey, bring proof with you, so people don't show up and then aren't able to get the access they need.

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    1. And I know they can't technically ask for proof, but I will gladly show a dr's note if that gets me the right pass. I can see their side...unfortunately there are people who abuse the system...it does stink for those people who actually need it, though. It also could have been one bad apple...always, always ask to speak to someone else.

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    2. Hi, Jen, We were issued a GAC that was the same as the GAC from last year, with the same alternate entrance stamp. The four ride attendants did not ask see the card or look at it. They merely looked at our party and waved us back to the regular line.

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    3. It sounds like a flaw in training.

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    4. We were just there...the change in policy is not about the apparentness of the disability, it is about the length of the line. They will only let you go through the alternate entrance if the wait is longer than 10 minutes. Sounds like none of your waits were longer than that. If you had gone to It's a Small World or the Flying Dumbos or the rides that historically have waits of 45 minutes or more, you would have been allowed into the alternate entrance with very little wait.

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    5. Also, just a suggestion for others...you need to define your child's NEEDS. I would discourage people from just going to City Hall and saying that you need the pass or even just saying that your child has autism. You need to say things like "he can't wait in lines. he can't tolerate being around other noisy children." That is always what we say. In your case, I would stress that he can't wait in lines that are even 10 minutes long without xyz consequences, and I'm pretty sure they would accommodate you. They've always been awesome with us.

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    6. Seriously, cannot stress enough...seek management. Talk to someone else. K couldn't make it through 10 seconds in line. We tried...it was a massive nightmare. Thankfully we had no issue going through fast pass or the disability access point. Sometimes we did have to wait a bit, but it was out of the sun and away from crowds, which helped a lot. I just hate condemning Disney when they really are so accommodating. And I agree with Lynn, too...being specific helps. Autism means nothing to a lot of people, 1:88 or not.

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    7. I always bring an old GAC with me. All due respect, the way you explained it to them (without explaining the sensory overload and specific medical consequences) is exactly how people try to misuse the system. They don't give the cast member enough information to make the proper choice.

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    8. Maybe someone added this at some point, but we've always been told there are certain rides that the pass won't help with, some rides don't have an alternative entrance and very often if the line isn't "long enough" it really doesn't make sense to insist. Last summer, using our pass, my son and I accessed the alternative entrance for It's A Small World at D-LA. So many people were in the disability line -- almost like we had arrived behind a very large party -- that the regular line moved faster.

      I still think it's worth getting in touch with disney to get their response.

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  18. Leo asks to go to Disneyland almost every day. I can't imagine trying to take him without a GAC, in fact I never would. And I can't believe people fake disability to get a card.

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    1. They do fake disabilites ... especially autism; and it makes things harder for those who do have valid need.

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  19. I'm so sorry to read this. We've been three times this year & got the pass each time. I did bring a Dr.'s note but was never asked to present it. I hope this gets rectified as many families with Autism love Disney for their caring & support. Those three trips were amazing for our family.

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    1. Three trips of flawless accommodations and much magic for us too. I have never heard of people getting "shoo'ed" to the regular line??? They checked my Card TWICE on every SINGLE ride, so I don't understand if they were using it properly.

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  20. Sadly many people do abuse the system, we went last year with our doctors letter and id card, after having phoned ahead, and were still asked to show our son to the customer service rep. I didn't mind as he asked very courteously and explained to us that people try all sorts of tricks to get a fast pass, e.g. hiring wheelchairs, fake ids etc.
    I had explained his ASD and sensory issues and also that he has ADHD and really cannot stand in line for long, and we also had our POLTI earmuffs in bright yellow, so I suppose that helped LOL. In fact, when we mislaid them and needed some cotton wool as the park was just too much, they bent over backwards, sending out staff to assist (which was very embarrassing, as I had only asked for a place to buy some cotton wool).
    I think that your own attitude toward the staff also helps and also to bear in mind that the staff are human and have different beliefs and levels of knowledge and understanding (and some have had a long shift, with probably some awful customer experiences). The other thing I did which may help others, is to email ahead to WDW head office to get some kind of paperwork to present to the customer service staff in addition to all other things, as again, people go to great lengths to get the fast passes and can "fake" ID cards and doctors letters. It is a very sad reflection of others morals, but not WDWs fault that those people are spoiling it for the genuine people.
    I am sorry that there have been the bad experiences for some, and can only say that we had a great experience at WDW and Universal and Wet n Wild who all had a fast pass policy of some kind. Preparation I think is the key, email in advance explaining your needs and for an official response from them, phone ahead to customer services, take doctors letter and id (I have a Community Services Card and Autism House card in NZ), explain very calmly and good humored to staff, and the ear muffs in neon colours!!! as soon as the staff saw those babies, we were in the fast pass LOL - Good luck

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    1. Wow! This is what I saw (wheelchair)!!! They do need to limit the party number to 4-6. I saw an older Grandmother with a party of 10 skip the line and was horrified. The healthy people with her adults and kids should be ashamed. They could easily wait in line. Most places limit the party to 4 or 6 depending on immediate family.

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  21. This post is of great interest to me since we are pretty WDW obsessive around here right now. I think that Brenda raises some excellent criticisms about the current system of accommodation for those with autism at WDW, and more importantly about the attitudes towards those with non-apparent disabilities. I hope you do pass these criticisms along to Disney, Brenda.
    As stated there has been widespread abuse of the system, along with ever increasing numbers of guests requiring special assistance, which has altered how WDW is able to handle certain special needs at its parks. For instance on many rides the line of EVC and wheelchair users at the alternative entrance may be so long that you will experience a shorter wait by using the regular line, so for a child with autism the regular line is actually going to be the better bet (this could have been what you experienced when you were directed to the regular line after showing the GAC). There is also no one consistent way that guests needs' are handled at each attraction; procedures are dependent on how busy the attraction is at that moment, staff available and other factors. So you may go to the same ride at different times on the same day with the same GAC and be given different accommodations (this is obviously terrible for anyone on the spectrum!).
    Sadly I agree with you that there seems to be a widening gap in accommodations WDW currently offers to those with ASD/similar. From the reading I’ve done it seems to be a two-fold problem –as WDW works to be more ADA compliant in its treatment of physically disabled guests by “mainstreaming” more and more attraction queues the access to alternative entrances are eliminated/reduced. And as Brenda said, 1 in 88 children are dxed with ASD, so combine that 1 in 88 with the aging population requiring EVC’s/WC’s, and all of the other disabilities requiring special accommodation, not to mention the mind-bendingly grotesque faction of disability faking wannabe queue jumpers, and suddenly the numbers requiring GAC’s grows to the point where it breaks the old system. The short line at the alternative entrances that made the park so magical for our kids is now just as long, loud and bustling as the regular line we’re trying to avoid, and the GAC alternate entrance stamp no longer really meets many ASD people’s needs. The good news is that until WDW figures out a better way to cover this gap (like consistently giving a written return time), there is a lot you can do yourself to construct your own ASD friendly WDW experience.
    However none of this addresses the negative attitudes you encountered, which is to me the saddest most infuriating part of the thing. We have experienced this ourselves. Our sons appear as typical, if somewhat quiet and serious looking, pre-teens. They don’t show any easily recognizable outward signs of ASD until it is WAY TOO LATE. If we’ve reached that point in public –forget about it. The rest of the day is a write off. So how is a Disney cast member supposed to be able to determine my sons’ needs for a GAC? CM’s aren’t allowed to request a doc’s note, which I would happily supply, so it is up to me to “sell” this stranger on my sons’ needs? In 3 minutes on a very busy, very stressful day with no privacy? Not fun. Degrading. Potentially discriminatory. But you know what, WDW isn’t the only place we go through this with an invisible disability. We encounter this often in our day to day.
    Anyway, I am so sorry that you and Jack didn’t have a good day at WDW. For future reference, there are many WDW strategies that are way more dependable than a GAC for mitigating theme parks stressors for ASD kids. I’m happy to come back and share or point people towards them if desired.

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    1. Love your reply thanks, and all the others - it is all too easy to get carried away and shocked by one person's experience, so it helps to have a broader view. This doesn't take anything away from the experience mama be good has had, and I'm sure there will sadly be others in the future who share this, but I'll just have to hope it's not us, or even the majority of special needs people. Sounds like generally Disney tries its hardest, and battling the 'fakers' is difficult for them too.
      I would really appreciate you sharing any good links for ways to plan the parks best for autistic children?! Thanks

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    2. Hi Steph,
      I do agree that Disney generally tries their best (they do a wonderful job with allergies, which is primarily why they will be getting our vacation $$ this year), but there sure are gaps, as illustrated by Jack’s lousy instead of magical day.:( At this point for our sons there are several things we do that are far more helpful than a GAC can be. I started to write my tips here and then realized that it was getting long, so it’s probably better netiquette to post it as a response on my own blog. Link to my top 10 tips for tackling WDW with autism.

      http://amillionuniverses.blogspot.ca/2012/06/10-tips-for-tackling-disney-world-with.html

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  22. It is the people that have made up an illness that you can't see that have ruined it for people that really need it. It makes me sick that people do that.
    I am sorry that you had that kind of experience and I wish there was something that you could do. I would call someone high up and talk to them about. Especially when you are planning your vacation. Hopefully be talking to someone ahead of time it can help your trip and getting some kind of pass easier and more enjoyable.

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    1. I was directed to the Fast Pass line at times and that went quickly but I was ALWAYS asked for the GAC, twice at every single ride. That was without fail.

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  23. Maybe we should paperclip a disability attorney business card to the Disney GAC, and also write down the name of the associate who makes the decision? I get frustrated with people's expectations that I violate my son's privacy in explaining every little detail of the reasons he should have and benefits from the easy accommodations already in place but arbitrarily denied to him. And don't get me started on the disability hierarchy - even when my son exactly fits the 'sympathy' criteria that gives him a little break, I am madder than a wet hen that it's sympathy - so creepy.
    We have had good luck at Disney parks but I know that 'look' - and we have seen it even when I have had a wheelchair for my son at the park.

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  24. Such irony after they publicized an Autistic getting the last Snow White ride. But it's fairly clear that this child looked "different" from the publicity story and pictures. Kids who do not have apparent physical or obvious behavioral differences are just labeled "misbehaving" or worse - frauds. I cannot help but wonder why people consider everyone guilty until proven innocent. It's a sad state of affairs and one of the largest obstacles Autistics and their families face.

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  25. Disney has always been very accommodating to us. Unfortunately, we have seen people (olders in wheelchairs) abusing the system last week. They brought about 10 people with them who were all healthy and fine enough to go in line. I was appaulled that people let them all go on the ride (they should limit it to immediate family or a party of 4 like other theme parks). That was ridiculous to see these healthy kids and adults line cutting for only one card/grandparent in a wheelchair. I understand that they need to make sure the are being told the truth. My kids is bouncing like Tigger the entire time so they don't question it. We just got back on Friday and Disney amazed me once again with their polite, accommodating employees and their support of the Autism community. Yes, the line has to be longer than 5-10 minutes but even then if the child steps on people they usually have a place they can wait with some quiet. They have always make my life easier...and I wasn't that big of a fan until I could see the accommodations they did for my son. Now I'm a huge fan of theirs!

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  26. It's really disappointing and very surprising to hear that so many people have had such a bad experience with Disney. Anyone who's in that boat should make sure that Disney knows about it.

    It was always my sense that Disney does *not* like people walking away from their parks angry. Definitely let them know that you weren't satisfied with how they handled things, why, and what they can do better next time.

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  27. I called Disney and Zoe indicated the problem may have been unclear communication between the parent and the cast member.

    She has no data to demonstrate the guest pass has changed in the manner you describe. Anecdotal at best.

    We are still going to Disney in the fall and taking our chances.

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  28. In my experience, the more I communicate what my needs are the better the outcome has been. Each time I have for the GAC I have had to show my son. I don't have a problem with that. I've also always brought a doctor's note, tho it has never been read. The first time I got the GAC was at the urging of a cast member on Haunted Mansion who felt badly that my son and I were waiting outside the ride for my family because he was scared of the stretch room. I once went on Test Track in the Fast Pass line (I had a FP) and asked to skip the movie. First cast member said no. Second cast member said no. Asked politely for a supervisor, and he took us to the front of the line and put us right in a car. I told him we only needed to not see the film and would happily wait on the line after the film and he said that wasn't acceptable to him, and our comfort and safety was his priority. For the most part, I have found Disney to be a very safe and welcoming place for my son and the rest of the family (I blog a lot about food allergies and Disney). My best advice to anyone is to make sure you communicate clearly why you need a pass. They make it clear that it is NOT a front of line pass, but yet a way to get you on rides in a safe manner - whether that means bypassing the line or waiting in the exit, or whatever. If you tell them you want a front of line pass, I can imagine they would be suspicious. If you tell them you have a child with autism who does not do well in crowds, the dark, etc., they should understand. And if they don't, take it up the line.

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  29. I have Fibromyalgia, which is also a neurological disorder, and I often rent an EVC because of it. Twice, I have been denied the use of the back entrance at the Haunted Mansion, even though I had a GAC that said I could use the alternate entrance.

    That's what you want by the way, the card that says "alternate entrance" it doesn't give you front of the line, it allows you to wait without crowds in a comfortable area. The stamp they put on it has two arrows, one going straight and one curving off. You can only get that stamp at the MK, the other parks don't have it. They will give them to people without mobility issues, you just have to know exactly what to ask for. At some attractions that equals a back door, but not at all of them. There is no flat out front of the line pass, not even for wheelchairs. In fact sometimes you have to wait even longer with a Guest Assistance Card.

    Anyhow... The last time I was at MK the cast members not only did not allow me access to the back door at the Haunted Mansion even though had the GAC saying to. They decided that public humiliation would be the way to go in my case. So imagine a 6'+ heavily built cast member leaning over a lady in a wheel chair shaking his hand in her face and yelling at her to the point she's in tears. Yep... that was me. It was one of the most humiliating moments of my life, and it happened in the Magic Kingdom.

    I took the abuse and sucked it up because I was embarrassed, however the next day I went back to Guest Relations and complained. As I told my story again I found myself in tears. This time however I had gotten a Guest Services Rep (Victoria) that listened, and was fully invested in what happened. I explained that I didn't want anything from them, that I just didn't want that to happen to anyone every again. Victoria helped me communicate to her supervisor, and their supervisor what was going on and what the problem really was. They assured me that the issues would be addressed. Two weeks later one of my friends was at the Haunted Mansion, and saw people using the entrance that I had been told was no longer an option because of policy.

    So, here's the thing. You HAVE to speak up. You have to go back to Guest Relations (write or call of walk up their yourself) and explain what is going on. You have to do your best to be calm, and let them know that you're not there to get something from them, that you need them to acknowledge the invisible disabilities. The new queue at the Haunted Mansion is considered ADA compliant, however the standards used in creating those ADA queues do not take into consideration all forms of disability. Disney needs to be made to understand that ADA is not a one size fits all designation and that some disabilities really do mean that you need to miss the cool new queues. The only way to do that is for people to speak up and let them know. If you're treated poorly, ask to talk to someone else, keep asking to talk to someone else, go back to guest services.

    It may not be our responsibility as disabled persons to prove our disability. But it IS our responsibility to speak up when something goes wrong and to keep telling our story over and over again until we find that magical cast member that's going to listen. Guest relations' job is to deal with unplesant people who are over reacting. If you go in calm as the day and offer up your proof (names dates and times help) they will listen, and all together we will make changes happen.

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    1. well spoken my friend :) was thinking of you the entire time I read this post. Hugs to you & mama be good :)

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  30. I contacted Disney at the beginning of the year about doing some type of Autism Awareness month activity and they never responded. I sent my letters and emails to many departments hoping someone would get it and not one response. It is very sad that the greatest place on earth is not accessible to all kids! Sigh

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  31. I am appalled by this post. We have just spent £1000s on booking a 'once in a lifetime' holiday to WDW next year. Friends had assured us that WDW were very acomodating of disabled people and special needs. We have also travelled to Disneyland in Paris, where they were very helpful. Having spent all that money I am now very concerned if we have to stand in line - not coz we don't like to wait our turn, but because of the resulting impact it has on my Son and his ability to enjoy the holiday. - I thought WDW was better than that. Thank you for sharing.

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  32. We went to Disney World in 2006. We brought a letter from the schiool psychologist and asked for a GAC pass. We go it, but did not use it until the last day in a very long line. They were very helpful and. Urious. But that was 6 years ago and may have been dependent on the cast member we had that day.

    I'm sorry you and Jack had that experience. I know how Overstimulating it ws for me....

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  33. the iPad does wonky things sometimes. Sorry! I hope that someone from Disney is reading this post and the comments. I hope they can find a good way to accomodate all the guests and their needs.

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  34. I did make a complaint to a Supervisor at the Riverside regarding a Watertaxi driver who stated in front of a boatload of people, who by the way hissed at, "Your child is the type of child who needs to be velcrod to his seat" This was an elder gentleman who in my experience have been less flexible/understanding but it still was sooo inappropriate. I had to keep it all together for my son not see me get upset. My son noticed though and asked me, "Mom, I was good, right?" and he was. I told him "Yes, you were good, that old watertaxi man was just a horrible mean person ; ) Which was entirely true - you don't humiliate people with disabilities in front of a group of people. If there is a problem, talk to the parents in private. In addition, I had told my son to move his seat because he complained he was getting wet and we did this at a stop. Cranky ole man!

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  35. The GAC was NEVER meant to shorten lines or be front-of-the-line access. The problem with the power of the Internet is that some castmembers did accommodate GAC holders that way, the the GAC holders posted about it, and now the system is being abused right and left. Spend any time on Disney planning boards and you will find this out. The GAC was meant for accommodations like letting people wait comfortably in another area, away from crowds and noise, etc.

    WDW guest assistance office does NOT read doctor's notes...they're not supposed to by law. Instead, they require to see the person who needs the GAC in person and need specific requests about what the child/SN person needs to make his wait time tolerable.

    If you have a child who cannot wait in any lines, then do your research: Go in the less busy times of year.

    And yes, I have a special needs child. And we wait in lines or do Fast Passes.

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  36. Looks as though someone who is sucking up Disney's butthole has spammed the comments with accusations trying to place the blame on the family who were ill treated :/

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  37. 11:48 here...No Disney spammer here. I've been to WDW plenty, though, and am active in the special needs community. GAC was never meant to be front of the line access, and the abuse of it has apparently caused Disney to clamp down on accommodations.

    If OP gets her way and insists her child can't wait in any line at all, then it just totally opens the floodgates. And that has happened as more and more kids are diagnosed with autism, and read blogs like this one and Shannon Des Roches Rosa blog.

    I understand it's frustrating. But Disney is in a difficult position here as well, as people expect that they and their families should be able to go past any line just on their say-so.

    And the more people insist, the more the clamp down will continue. (People in wheelchairs aren't supposed to be bypassing any lines either, and I imagine that rule is also going to get a lot more stringent.

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  38. Wow - stumbled upon your blog from a Paper.li and had to follow the Disney situation back to this post - what a nightmare. I hate that others abuse the GAC, and I hate that the GAC alone isn't always enough to have the same consideration as someone with apparent disabilities.

    When we went to Disney, we had the GAC and still had to wait in line for a few rides, because their wait times were fewer than 10 minutes ... so when one kid went to the ground in a full on meltdown we lost one ride, and when another got scared of the darker place for a line, we had to leave that one too.

    I would love to see Disney address their GAC policy and the overall behavior that sometimes shows its face in an uninformed cast member.

    I will say both my oldest and youngest are legally blind, have muscle tone issues, and my youngest has CP, but all my boys are autistic as well. When my guys "acted" like they were autistic, when they limped or showed how hard it was to walk or stand, they were sometimes met with greater compassion, but not always.

    I think there is almost a silent misunderstanding of children with less-apparent disabilities - one that assumes the parents don't know how to parent, or that the child is just acting out, when in fact that isn't the case at all.

    Can't wait to see how this plays out and if/how Disney handles your letter!

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  39. We were at WDW last week, with our 3 kids. 2 are neuro-typical, the oldest has Aspergers, with various side issues that make it very difficult for him to deal with lines, enclosed spaces,etc. We went to Guest Relations at City Hall, and had NO PROBLEM WHATSOEVER getting a GAC for our eldest. Without a dr. note- we were trying not to use the GAC this time, but it was simply too much for him. On most rides, they asked us to use the "Fast Pass" line, if the FP wait was short- we did. A few rides, they asked my son and one of us to wait in the exit area- we did. We were even able to get quieter seating at restaurants, so as to calm his anxiety issues.

    I also think blanket statements (they always do this, they never do this) tend to defeat our purpose. For every bad GAC experience, I think there are also really good GAC experiences (like ours- we go 1-2 times a year, and have yet to experience a problem). Do I wish my ASD kid got the same consideration everywhere as a more "obvious" disability? Sometimes- don't get me started on Six Flags! Do I wish more people were sensitive to all kids with special needs? Absolutely! I will continue to do my best for all three of my kids, with whatever I have to work with.

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  40. We were there (DisneyWorld) last Sept and had none of these issues. Used FastPass lane for most, some went in through exit, like the water ride that we would never have been able to do in a million years with line. I hope things have not changed. We were hoping to go back this year.

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  41. I'm so glad I read this. The last time I took my son, it's been several years, we got the guest pass that allows us to go in front of the line for my autistic son. We've been trying to plan another trip, thinking they still had this policy. There is no way we can take my son without being able to get the pass. He just can not wait in line with everyone else. Looks like my son will not be able to go to Disney World again.

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  42. Your experience really concerns me for a number of reasons. WDW has been our only vacation destination for the last 17 years ( I know, tunnel vision much?) and we own DVC. Our almost 4 year old was diagnosed with "severe" autism in February. I use quotations because either maternal instinct or plain denial make me question the word severe but that is another post. This will be her 4th trip but the first since her diagnosis. Last summer was kind of an ordeal and I have been looking into and reading up on the GAC for our trip next month and while most of what I have read has been positive your experience throws a huge monkey wrench in the plans for us. I don't know if you kept your composure or not but that is not my strong suit and I have a hair trigger when it comes to her, for better or worse. My husband calls me his little pit bull or sometimes just "the hammer." I just shot off an email to Walt Disney World Guest Relations inquiring as to the best way to secure a GAC for her outlining her issues(autism, sensory, crowded, places and being stuck in lines, etc.) I emphasized that we are Disney World lovers for almost 2 decades and while I wish for our newest DVC member to be able to enjoy it as much as we do, I also want to minimize any disruptions to other guests her sensitivities may cause. I also expressed my concern over her disability being "invisible" on first glance to someone who may not have experience with ASD kids. Hopefully I will receive some helpful info from them and if so, I will print out their response and bring it along with her diagnosis which I also wrote that I have but I know they cannot look at. I hope that your experience was due to inexperienced cast members and not an overall change in the way Disney deals with this particular disability. With prevalence increasing, there are going to be more and more families that will not be able to enjoy Disney World when it can be a great joy for our kids.

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